Re: Wives and Boats
Ooh! Been there, heard that. I finally had to dis-invite my wife from going on play outings with the kids. Everyone would have a great time, we would tube and ski until they were tired or the weather cooled down. I never put pressure on the kids to stay out but the Mrs always thought it was too long.
I told her I would miss her but if the duration, that is fine with all other participants, was not fine with her maybe she should just not go with us. (in otherwords, you may stay home) I'm only talking here about 5-6 hrs vs 2-3 hours. Not a day long or unplanned overnight event.
Don't worry. It did not cost me anything. You cannot give up that which you do not already have!
She likes to go and I like for her to go, she is my main driver when I ski but she also thinks that 2 hours on the water is plenty while I could stay for 6, 8, 10, 12..overnight, whatever
Ooh! Been there, heard that. I finally had to dis-invite my wife from going on play outings with the kids. Everyone would have a great time, we would tube and ski until they were tired or the weather cooled down. I never put pressure on the kids to stay out but the Mrs always thought it was too long.
I told her I would miss her but if the duration, that is fine with all other participants, was not fine with her maybe she should just not go with us. (in otherwords, you may stay home) I'm only talking here about 5-6 hrs vs 2-3 hours. Not a day long or unplanned overnight event.
Don't worry. It did not cost me anything. You cannot give up that which you do not already have!