Ok, so no switch. You have the 2 batteries wired in parallel, with no separate house/boat batteries, but only 1 is draining? That doesn't make sense. Or do you have 2 completely separate systems for house/boat and only 1 is draining? Assuming scenario #2. Disconnect the neg (how many wires?) from the battery. Take your DVM on current/amps setting and connect 1 probe to batt neg and the other to the wire(s), one at a time if multiple. You should see no current. if there is, that's your bad circuit. If it's your main/only connection, pull fuses one at a time. If/when the current drops to zero, then the drain is on the circuit supplied by the fuse. Then will need to narrow it down more from there. Reading over this makes it sound much harder than it is.