Yes I understand that, I was confused about how the starter doesn't get 12v back feed from the purple wire, When I'm done turning the key, and it's now in the run position.
Technically it does, but only after the engine has started, not before the engine has started. But the power is on the bypass terminal which isn't connected to anything inside the starter when the key is in the RUN position after the engine has started. If anything, that bypass terminal can be thought of as an extension of the purple/yellow wire, but not actually connected to anything internally inside the starter when the key is in the run position. The terminal itself is energized but not actually sending power to anything.
An easy way to think about it is like this:
There are 3 terminals on the starter.
1. Main power lug, where the battery cable connects.
2. S terminal, the start terminal, this is where the yellow/red from the key switch connects.
3. R terminal (i think, been a while) which is the bypass terminal.
When the key is off, and battery switch is on, the main power lug always has power, but it's not connected to anything inside the starter.
When you turn the key to RUN, you send power down the purple wire to 1 side of the oil pressure switch. That is where the power stops.
When you turn the key to start, the key switch keeps applying power to the purple wire, but it now also applies power to the yellow/red wire, which activates the starter solenoid. (There is technically a slave solenoid that is also part of this equation, but I am going to skip it to keep this simple)
When the starter solenoid is activated, 2 things happen:
1. Power from the main lug is sent to the motors armature, which makes the starter turn.
2. Power from the main lug is sent to the R terminal, which is then sent to the fuel pump, bypassing the oil pressure switch.
After the engine starts and you let go of the key, it defaults back to the run position. This means power on the purple wire only. As such the circuit inside of the starter solenoid is no longer active, and power on the main lug is no longer being sent to the R terminal.
Because the engine now has oil pressure, the power that originally stopped at the oil pressure switch now flows through the oil pressure switch because the switch closes with oil pressure. This power goes to the fuel pump, but, as it's also connected to that same purple/yellow wire that goes to the starter's R terminal, power is in fact backfed to the starter solenoid. But, because there is nothing inside the solenoid that is connected to anything when the key is not in the start position, nothing happens and no problems are created.