Sorry, some of the wire colors I cited were for a 1978 and older Merc IL6.
A 1980 Merc stator for your motor should have 2 yellow wires, a red and a blue wire, and a red/white and a blue/white wire. The yellow wires feed the AC side of the rectifier, the rest feed the switchboxes. The charging wire is red and connects to the + terminal of the rectifier. The tach sender wire is grey and connects to either of the yellow wires.
Not sure if this helps...