Caught my woman talking online.cheater

Gary H NC

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

I'm giving her(HER SPACE)...lol..
i think i'll let her think about it for awhile..trying to look at it as I have better things to worry about. If she fesses up i may consider giving it a try,but thats a big maybe!
 

roscoe

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No no non no !

She'll be wantin to put curtains up in that new house of yours.
Probably want a pink bathroom and furniture too.

A man's house:
bathroom- a toilet, a showerhead, and a floor drain.
main room- fridge, table, chair, sofa, gas grill, tv, computer
bedroom- bed

Shop- twice the size of the house. :)
 

Kiwi Phil

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Thats the way to think roscoe.
Cheers
Phillip
 

Gary H NC

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

TRUE ROSCOE!! Its going to be a mans house for sure!
I may need a cleaning lady! I'm thinking a young pretty little hispanic maid..8)
 

Plainsman

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

Good for youI.. HAD a cheating wife, glad she's gone. The trust issue would have been to much swimming in the back of my head. Get yourself a "friend with benefits" and leave it at that.
 

Kevin70

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

On the other hand, I met my wife in a bar and she is, without question, a saint who lives only for this family. Not all women in bars are as good as mine, but they ain't all skanky ho's either.:p
 

Fly Rod

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

8) Do them thar ispanics come topless to clean the house???
If so, I may need to hire me one or two!!!!8)
 

Kiwi Phil

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

Oh no...not a housekeeper.!!!!!!
After the incident I spoke of way back in this thread, I leased out my Motels and took on a Flag Inn.
I had a whole lot of house keepers (casual) on staff, and the rules were, make the boss's bed, clean the bathroom, tidy the place quickly, do the laundry and ironing 6 days a week. On the 7th, change the bed..do the lot.
These were very happy days. Had a few lady friends and pretty much did as I liked.
I would recommend something similar to all men.

Over past 20yrs we have always had a housekeeper.
My advice with housekepers:

1. keep it professional
2. if you need them for 4hrs week, see if you can split it in to 2 days of 2 hrs. (means the house is only dirty half the time)
3. Keep a list of what to do and the time you want it done in, then have another list of extras, like wash the curtains, clean the fans, clean the windows etc.
4. Don't give them a smoko break, no talking on the phone, no friends
5. pay them basic wage and when they prove themselves, up the rate by 20%
6. give you any hassels, fire them.

Most are really good and nice people.
Go for it mate, and when you bring a little sheila home and she sees the place all tip top, she will know straight away its not her housekeeping skills your looking for.

Cheers
Phillip
 

LFK

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Re: Caught my woman talking online.cheater

I just read this whole thread, and I am surprised that you are giving her (her space). She should have fessed up and appologized, if she intends on really changing her behavior.

This happened to me 9 years ago. It was very hard to move on at first (we had been together for 13 years and have children), but once I realized that she was not really working on fixing things, it got much easier. I've been glad it was a clean break for the past 8 years.

Just remember that pulling the bandaid off quickly stings, but feels better sooner than dragging it out.
 
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