Re: Confrontational Posts
I think alot of good points here.
(I'm new to the forum, but I'm a member on so many forums on the net that I barely get to them all once a week.)
About 20 that I visit enough to call myself a member.
Some are great, others for some reason have some allure that attracts opinionated jerks. Usually they are not right, especially when it comes to a scientific answer that has a right or wrong.
I usually just cruise right on past the confrontational posts, not worth my time. If I disagree with someone, or think I have a better answer, I always try to start with "in my opinion" or "You could consider trying" I am always looking for advice too, I sure as heck don't know everything in the world, so when I need help, I hope that the guy I offered my advice on a topic isn't offended and could offer me his knowledge. Sometimes people aren't trying to be confrontational, they just don't know how to present their information and it is read the wrong way. Of course sometimes people are just plain wrong and even when you post references to back up your information, they still believe whats in their head, and then we have to let them go on their angry way and learn the "hard way" that we all have been through once in our lives. You know "Wonder if thats hot still.." "OW." The hard way.