Fixed the overheating issue, split the upper and lower drive units and the copper tube grommets were dried out on one side and split on the other. Replaced those as well as the water intake housing gasket. Runs almost too cool now, at idle it will cool right down to 120 or so. Rather have that problem then the overheating.
The boat hasn't skipped a beat since all this work and it's been great. Only issue I'm chasing now is the trim cylinders leaking down. Rebuilt them with a cheap kit from JLM and that worked for a day and then stopped working. So bought a used set of trim cylinders to try for 80$