Re: How heavy is your stern anchor
The only time you should consider a stern anchor is if it's somehow dangerous to allow for movement of your boat, but then you probably shouldn't be anchoring there anyway ( I assume it's a situation where you are there against your will).
With the nightmares I've heard and read about caused by stern anchors, I don't even want a small one out there potentially getting caught in rocks or anything. You simply don't know what's under water.
There are actually quite a few times when the stern anchor is warranted. Obviously, this wouldn't be in big water conditions.
When anchored during an overnight trip in the river, there are shallow areas around the boat or errant crab traps and I don't want the boat swinging side to side. This gives a great potential for fouling the props with trap lines. They can run 30-40 feet from the trap underwater.
Another is where mooring bouys are placed and other boats are around or may come in during the night. I don't want to wake up at 4 a.m. with my hull smacking against another boat. I also won't moor next to another boat if they don't have a stern anchor deployed where the swing of my boat may cross the swing of theirs.
Stern anchors have their place, but there has to be a captain that has the knowledge and sense on when and how to use them.