Re: Im so pissed, Has your wife done this?
Treat her with respect, she will treat you the same way! I too open doors, do the chivalry thing, etc. I love her dearly and she knows it and responds in kind. I am in charge of the outside of the house, the garage, the basement workshop, my gun room (if she went in there and saw all the guns and fishing equipment I would probably be in trouble), and the basement bathroom. Those are my domains. She has everything else to keep neat and tidy. There are times that she "asks" to come into my domain to tidy up, and I let her. She knows what is important to me because we communicate. Too much is lost because people don't communicate!