Ha ha , yeah me too...@ 63 I got a 32 year old and her 4 kids (3 boys 9,14 and 16 and a 12 yo girl ,the kids Father and Grandfather perished in a boating accident ) and as we never had kids it sure was (is) an eye opener.The neighbor adopted me as her dad a couple years ago so that came with 'grandkids'....
Consider yourself Blessed !
For me her dad does not approve of her lifestyle and politics.