Need some advice.

JDP

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The wife and I have decided that we are done having anymore kids. Being that it's only fare that since she had to carry them and deliver them. Not to mention she has been the one responsible for taking birth control for the past 10 years. I have decided to get snipped. I don't know of very many people that have had this done personally. Other than one guy on the day shift that I'm pretty sure did it himself with a butter knife on his lunch break. Anybody have any advice on what to expect afterwards. I work a compressed shift so I have 3 and 4 days off every week so I'll be able to lay around and do nothing for a couple days. I have done lots of reading on the matter and feel like I have a pretty good understanding of how the whole procedure works. I have to be honest, I'm really nervous about this whole thing. I made an appointment 2 years ago but canceled it because we both decided to wait a couple more years just to be sure. So any advice or tips on what to do or not do for that matter would be greatly appriciated.
 

tashasdaddy

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Re: Need some advice.

i had several friends that have had it done. no worse than getting kicked in the gonads.
 

PW2

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No big deal.

I got it done mid week. Never missed any work, and played in a softball tourney the following weekend.
 

JB

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Re: Need some advice.

A bit sore for a couple of days but not any worse than a charley horse.

That was in 1971. May be even easier now.

Because the LOML had some unfortunate side effects from the pills and some anxiety about their reliability the net result was very positive for our relationship.
 

BoatBuoy

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Worse part is the needle used to administer local anesthetic. That only lasted a few seconds. Piece of cake after that. Be sure and have specimen checked periodically. Dr. will probably advise you on that.
 

12Footer

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I had the "procedure" back in 1983. Back then, it costed 250bucks. I had three kids and was starting to experience a "strained" relationship with my wife of 13years. Back then, aids was not an issue outside of the gay community for the most part.
The procedure took about 45 minutes show-up to walk-out in a doctor's office. I remember the inititial pain as being comparable to a visit to the dentist... only lower :) The healing process took about a week in total, and had my stitches removed about 5 days after surgery (about like another visit to a dentist). The first 24 hours after the snippin, it felt as if someone had thumped me in der jewels. Moderate groin-groanin, but tolerable without the prescribed pain meds.
In 1985, my wife and I divorced. I met a girl in Tampa and we had a casual weekend at a beach resort.... Two months later, she called me in tears saying she was pregnant, and that i
was the babydaddy.. After getting up from rolling on the floor, I told her about the procedure. She thought i was lying ,so i had to show proof to get her to leave me alone. Bottom line, she left me alone after that. :)
Expect no difference in "sensations" , outside of a new freedom which only enhances everything. Do it. Since you already have kids, you will never regret it -- and never look back.
 

57whitehouse

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Re: Need some advice.

Thanks for reminding me to make an appointment. My wife has been after me for months now.

I plan on taking valium before going in. My friend had it done and said "no big deal". But I'm still nervous.
 

sun_runner235

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Worse part is the needle used to administer local anesthetic. That only lasted a few seconds. Piece of cake after that. Be sure and have specimen checked periodically. Dr. will probably advise you on that.

I had mine done back in April. The needle and local is definately the worst part...feels like you're getting kicked in the nads...but then it goes away quickly. Other than that you'll feel some tugging, but absolutely no pain. The one thing my doctor emphasised is how to recoop. Ice(peas) the first 24 hours to reduce swelling....but no ice after that. Past 24 hours with ice slows the healing process. The other critical thing is to do nothing for a couple of days....its hard to remember that to. Don't pick up anything more than 10lbs in weight. The doc said almost all of the people that experience complications or long term issues with the procedure can trace it back to something they did the first couple of days after the procedure.

Don't be to worried. There is truely very little pain. Nothing that Advil can't fix.
 

OldMercsRule

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Had mine done in 1987 (after the birth of my third). The Doc had a very nice lookin' lil' PA helpin' out, (which served as a great distraction). Never missed a day of work or play. JR
 

Kenneth Brown

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Can you climb stairs afterwards? I live in a 2 story and will be doing this fairly soon as well, I have #3 on the way so thats plenty.
 

drewmitch44

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Id snort a couple extra Oxy cottin's Before. I mean a couple not extra. I hardly ever have extra to snort!
 

WaterWitch2

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You guys got lucky. I had it done a couple months ago and had severe pain for almost a week and kept ice down there for almost a week. It appears that it was unsuccesfull on top of it all. I have to go back for another check soon to find out.
 

Mark42

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I had another procedure that doesn't hurt one bit. Its called "have your wifes tubes tied". Worked for me! :D
 

KeltonKrew

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had mine done about 4 years ago....the shot hurt like Heck!!!!, but after that, just some tugging.

did the ice....I had it done on Friday, back at work on Monday...even did a crawfish boil Saturday, but went to bed early.

it will be tender but not unbearable. but don't try to try it on with the misses for about a month or so though!
 

Bart Sr.

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I had that done 20 years ago and had little to no pain.We waited until our youngest was past the age of "Crib Death" possibility.

The toughest part of it all is that a "FRESH" sample is needed to test for successful results.
 

Terry Olson

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Re: Need some advice.

JDP - I just noticed that your rank is listed as "Seaman"... After the procedure will it change to "Seamanless"??? Artist formerly known as Seaman??? It's Seaman like it isn't working anymore???

(My immaturity keeps me young)
 

i386

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JDP - I just noticed that your rank is listed as "Seaman"... After the procedure will it change to "Seamanless"???

(My immaturity keeps me young)

:D:D

He gets to keep his crew, they just can no longer board another vessel. ;)
 

Terry Olson

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:D:D

He gets to keep his crew, they just can no longer board another vessel. ;)

I thought of a couple more and edited but I have the distinct feeling that I'm not "finished" yet!!!
 

Scoop

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Re: Need some advice.

I never had it done, but worked with 4 different guys that did have it done.

One had almost no pain. He went out the next day and never looked back.

The other three used peas for a day and said it ached for a couple more. All said the tugging while they were doing it was not painful, but an odd feeling.

Good luck​
 
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