Re: Over my head ?
Sorry about your bad news.
Basically it comes to this..You will spend more $ to restore this than its worth.
After that fact is time. If you have the time and place and money we can get you through this.
If not..then ditch it sell it for what you can and move on.
As one of the other posters said .. look at it like multiple projects and not one big one. You Will fail here and there only to redo this and that ( part and parsel to restorations

). However let nothing get you down man. Nothing.
Expectations lead to disapointments here in the resto of boats

.. just keep on keeping on IF you want to start it.
Take your mind off the thing for a week. Dont even think about her. Them come back with an open mind and take a Good look. Do you want to do her..or not. ( It will be a full blown resto IMO ).
Good luck man.
YD.