Fishbusters
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The e-mails and fantasy are only a small part of what should concern you. What really worries me is when you said "poss. some lunches". If there was no real-time in person meeting between the two I think you should and can work to salvage things because if all that was there is fantasy then perhaps you can work to fill in what she needs to fantasize about. If there were a face to face meeting then it has gone beyond the strictly fantasy stage and who knows what else has happened. This is the part that concerns me and I would have to work towards finding out. As to the car (the other part that has me worried) if it is a good car especially one the wife likes I would worry a lot. One overlooked reason for her selling him her car is to take it off the books so to speak if things end up in divorce. If you sell it to the "boyfriend" then she gets to keep it free and clear and not as a part of a settlement. Watch your back here if there are further offloading of things it might be a signal. I have seen the car sale as well as other things that were sold to "friends" right before one party left and filed for divorce. It is a way of making sure you get to keep what you want without it counting as part of the settlement.
The e-mails and fantasy are only a small part of what should concern you. What really worries me is when you said "poss. some lunches". If there was no real-time in person meeting between the two I think you should and can work to salvage things because if all that was there is fantasy then perhaps you can work to fill in what she needs to fantasize about. If there were a face to face meeting then it has gone beyond the strictly fantasy stage and who knows what else has happened. This is the part that concerns me and I would have to work towards finding out. As to the car (the other part that has me worried) if it is a good car especially one the wife likes I would worry a lot. One overlooked reason for her selling him her car is to take it off the books so to speak if things end up in divorce. If you sell it to the "boyfriend" then she gets to keep it free and clear and not as a part of a settlement. Watch your back here if there are further offloading of things it might be a signal. I have seen the car sale as well as other things that were sold to "friends" right before one party left and filed for divorce. It is a way of making sure you get to keep what you want without it counting as part of the settlement.
. Talked on and off all wknd.(awesome) We love each other lots, I REALLY ****ED UP to let it get this far and stopped communicating/talking to my wife and had MY priorities WRONG, I "checked out" awhile ago, stopped givin a damn, then she did too. never again. I travel lots, but it's gonna be lots less. She truly is an awesome woman and gets a hell of alot done that I dont see. We;ve been talking great, but counseling for sure, and I cant wait to see her when I get home today. Remembered why I married her, and what a good marriage we had, gonna make it even better.We've got real busy lives, but were BOTH making time for each other now. Thanks again so much guys, EZ.<br />P.S. When friends or family of yours are tellin ya you're ****in up, they can't all be wrong. 
