Re: Taurus Judge
When I got married my petite wife took over control of my favorite revolver, a first generation Charter Arms Buldog. I had to buy one for her to get mine back. Many of the second through fourth generation revolvers wern't worth bringing home, but the new owners got the bugs worked out and the quality is back up to snuff. The new Buldog pug has a 2 1/2 inch shrouded barrel. Just remember that it is called a buldog because it bites. A gun that is a study in light wieght combined with 44 Special ammunition has a strong recoil. That said, she usually put 25 rounds though hers in a practice session.
Her play gun is a 45 Long colt, 1873 Cavalry knock off. She stops when the ammo runs out! She can also use my 1911 with equal eaase but prefers a wheel gun. She has a 20 guage side by side as her shotgun but would easily use one of my 12 ga. if she needed to. What ever caliber is chosen, a bullet on target is far better than one that has more energy and is not. Modern defensive ammo like Glaser Safety Slugs, or Corbon's premium will make even a .380 or a .38 Special an acceptable weapon if that is all that the user can handle with skill and confidence.
We do not worry about background structures usually, as frequent training enforces not putting your finger on the trigger until the target is full within the sight picture and good ammunition will transfer most of the bullets energy into the body of the target. I personnally know from experience that Winchester Silvertips in .45 ACP will not overpenatrate.
The noise of a pump gun going home or a revolver being cocked is only a means of forearming a determined perp, and there are more and more of them out there as drug use goes up and gang affiliation requires worse crimes.
Pop was a cop and taught me that if you ever clear leather on a man, then you should drop him dead. The fist knowledge that he should have that you have a gun should be the bullet tearing through his flesh, otherwise he will try his best to kill you. Pop insisted that if it was not worth taking life, then it was not worth pointing a gun at someone, better thinking would solve the situation.
I know that there are exceptions, but the advice is still sound.
I would strongly suggest some advanced firearms training. During a stressfull situation one goes on automatic and does only what their training dictates. The $300 to $500 bucks for a good course is well worth it.