Gotcha. Can anyone edit my title ? I cant. I'd hate to start a new thread.
I just got off the phone with a tech at volvo penta, they no long use the flapper in question. the tech assured me it was nothign to worry about, and that the riser design they have should handle any water that gets that high, and to avoid backing up in near to full throttle or killing the engine while driving/in gear. He also ssaid he would not worry about it and they instruct the dealers to remove the piece if they see it, and to NOT re-install one since they are known to break off.
Even so I will love to have an exhaust flapper just as extra insurance...maybe a mercruiser exhaust bellow with flapper would do the trick for me ?