Girl prolbems, already

[QC]

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I'm pretty much with LadyFish on this one with one major exception. I think the ScumBag is back . . .<br /><br />I also think SW is too cynical. Jeez dude, people do make mistakes and some of them even learn from them. A slick 21 year old with a silver tongue, nice car etc. is tough to resist for a 16 year old. I bet over 10% (probably more like 50%) of the female population have had or got very close to a similar experience. I know a VERY religious 18 year old who is moving in with a 34 year old right now. Family is disowning her etc. Who benefits from that treatment?

 

[SoulWinner]

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Sorry QC, I am cynical to the bone, and only believe in the bible. Everything else, well, I don't trust or believe in anything anymore.<br /><br />Oh, and you're right, I think home boy is coming back for seconds.

 

[QC]

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SW,<br /><br />Dude, like wow, there is a LOT of forgiveness available in the Bible . . .

 

[Dunaruna]

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Scumbag, sexual predator, STDs'.<br /><br />Has anyone met this 21 year old?<br /><br />What a synical world we live in.

 

[Limited-Time]

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SW,<br />Believe in it, or live by it, cause best I can remember it contained stuff like, Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. And, Judge not lest ye be judged...........

 

[JasonJ]

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Ryan, do what you are going to do, but please remember that dating is supposed to be fun. You are not supposed to be all wrapped up and stressing out when you are first dating a girl. You are supposed to be all looking forward to the process, not worried about the 21 year old shadow looming in the background, especially after a mere two weeks. Heck, I've worn socks longer than that (please don't ask-its an Army thing)<br /><br />I'm sorry, and you can learn it any way you want to, but this girl is not going to "come around". When/if she does come back, it will be because 21 year old used her up again while trolling for another sweet young thang. She will come back because you have placed your heart on your sleeve, and she knows she can play up to that, just like the 21 year old plays her. You will get all wrapped up in her again, and 21 year old will come back a knockin', and off she goes.<br /><br />I know us old farts don't know much about this sort of thing, because we were born 36 years old and were never teens, but man I wish you would just go get another honey, you don't need this heartburn...

 

[SoulWinner]

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Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetfullness. Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me right? Nah, screw me once, shame on me for not seeing it coming. Jason makes a dang good point here. It's a shame that knowing when to walk to walk away doesn't mean you have the ability to walk away.

 

[11 footer]

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I really don't think this 21y/o has come around, like I said, I trust and bleave what she tells me and I've been told by her and her best friend that she hasn't seen or talked to him since they broke up. I don't know anyone who knows him besides her, her best friend never even met him because the two dissagreed, she thought the age difference was too much. She told me that when he broke up with her he told her she wouldn't hear from him again because that would be best for her. She says he hasn't called her at all and she won't call him. I'm not positive, but I really don't think he'll ever be in the picture again. When she found out that I knew she had sex with him she seemed really upset, and actually said that "of what a first empression for you to have" and "I'm really not a *****", she also said that it seemed to be the right thing to do at the time, but didn't actually come out and say its wrong. I think the main reason she is so tied up with him is not so much because of him, but because he's the first and only guy shes ever had sex with. When I come to the "first time" girls are a lot different then guys. The'll never forget the guy it was with, no matter what.<br /><br />Nothing new with her today, I told her she wouldn't hear from me for a couple of days, so unless she calls I'll have no news for a few days.

 

[FLATHEAD]

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Originally posted by SoulWinner:<br />[QB] <br /><br />Now for the bad news, every single girl I ever knew with only one exception, turned into a total cheap **** after being introduced to hard leg. So, whether it be revenge or rebounding, or what ever, expect her to start spreading the news for just about anybody.<br /><br />QUOTE]<br /><br />-------------------------------------------------<br />Talk about a blanket statement<br /><br />Just remember SW your wife was introduced to "Hardleg" at one point in her life. As a matter of fact so was your mother. I Guess that is the Christian way eh SW? . <br /><br />Ryann, good luck buddy.

 

[11 footer]

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Soulwinner, I've heard enough. My turn to post my hard-nosed opinion.<br /><br />I really don't put much thought into anything you write, and I disagree with your by-the-bible-only way of live, and really don’t like it that you feel a need to push it on everyone else. In my experience people like you try to hide behind religion.<br /><br />Although I'm catholic, I am not religious and think hard nose church go'ers are often weak people who can't handle reality. They look for something mythical, almost fairy tail like to help them deal with things. <br /><br />I think to think of myself as more realistic then that, so go pray or something, because I really don't want to hear it anymore.

 

[Boomyal]

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Originally posted by Ryan T.:<br /> ....are often weak people who can't handle reality. They look for something mythical, almost fairy tail like to help them deal with things.

Hmmm Ryan T. I usually have great empathy for your circumstances as you describe them but this one kinda pushes the limits. There is nothing more fairy tale like than a 16 y/o chasing after mixed up young girls who don't have a clue what they want or need. You ought to keep a great distance from these types and remember the Biblical admonition not to 'cast your pearls before swine'.

 

[Haut Medoc]

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Ryan, you are sounding a little thin skinned....I agree with the not wanting to hear religion thing....I think JasonJ is probably close to the truth, but you are going have to find the answers out for yourself....Time will tell....Just don't compromise yourself in the process. If she is worth it, she,(not you) will prove that...JK

 

[Barbee Q]

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Hay, Ryan I wish you luck.. I'm sure as you get older like all of us here, you will see that everyone has their own opinions.. All that really matters is that you take care of yourself and be a friend to the girl.. I guess you have got luck on your side to figure things out.. <br />This is just one of those things that is part of growing up..<br />I wish you well..<br />Good LUCK..

 

[SoulWinner]

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Oh Ryan, you don't want to hear form me? I'm, so dang heart broken. <br /><br />Your girl says that although she dropped her precious pantizzies for a 21 year old after a couple of weeks she's "not a *****" and you bought it? Wow. Well, let me introduce you to reality. She is a cheap skank, and any dip stick that would chase after her "chaste" goods deserves what he gets. What a maroon! Sloopy was a victim of circumstance, you? Well, what can I say? Start swilling cheap wine now and invest in some worthless Texas property. That will come in handy in the future. Have nice life with your pressure washer and your suction cups....<br /><br />Oh, and religion? I haven't been to church in over year. Well, once. I don't buy into religion because it attracts idiots and losers. The "truth" is what I deal in, and it can be found in the bible, so don't believe a word I say. It can also be hard and cold and unforgiving as he11. Find out for your self; either from the book or from having your heart ripped out, consumed by a heartless bizzatch , and crapped back down you throat, I recommend the former from experience...something you lack in this conversation. Eventually you will see the truth and it will set you free. As for your sophomoric insults and poor spelling, I consider myself in good company, though as yet inexperienced. Can you figure that sentence out? Bless you Ryan, I hope you get what you want, not what your asking for, or what I think you deserve; but somehow, I think you gonna pursue that anyways. And to think, you own a boat at 16. I guess I just don't get it.

 

[SoulWinner]

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Oh, and if anything I've said here really ticks you off, consider this, the truth hurts. It may not be what you want to hear, but it may save you a load of heart ache in the future. Let the heart break I have suffered be your road to peace; or go do it your self and reap what you could have avoided sowing. It's your call dude. Oh, and screw me for trying to help, right? It's not like I haven't been there before......

 

[FLATHEAD]

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The truth here is ,, MR SW your are an azz. I think you need to be taught another LIFE lesson! God help your kids if you have any, I hope not. <br /><br />Ryan honestly I don't know why you even bother to post here anymore. Chase your dream if only for a little while. Heck thats what being young is all about.

 

[Dave Abrahamson]

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WOW SW!! Isn't there something in that "good book" about casting judgement on others? You pretty much put down all of our wives and mothers if they were not "pure" before marraige. <br />And BTW, My wife,(***** I guess in your eyes) moved in with me after knowing me for 2 weeks...20 years ago. One beautiful daughter, one awesome grandson and I still love her more every day.

 

[one more cast]

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Ryan,Ryan,Ryan, As you go through life you will be faced with many decisions. You will make different choices based on many different factors. Many of the choices you make will seem to be the wrong choice at the time but as you get older you will see that all the choices you made in the past have made you the person you will become. Just let your decisions be YOUR decisions.Remember, opinions are like A-holes, everybody has one.<br /> ps. You learn by your mistakes, thats why I'm so smart.

 

[JB]

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SW, you show no notion of truth and little or no understand about the Bible, Jesus or true Christianity.<br /><br />You are too quick to judge and condemn others on no factual input at all. Like too many self righteous hypocrites.

 

[phatmanmike]

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leave that girl at the lemonade stand and go out in your 17 foot whaler with your 70hp suzuki and go fishing.<br /><br />problem solved!