Girl prolbems, already

[Dunaruna]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Ryan, the hook it set deep, you can run, but it ain't coming out. I hope for your sake she has a tag & release policy.

 

[Boomyal]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Oh so glad not to be 16 again. Some things never change. "I'm not waiting but I am". Been there done that. It never works but I guess you won't know that till you go thru it.

 

[Haut Medoc]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Time will tell...Just keep on living & enjoy life without her...She will be back if she wants to. You might find someone else...Keep on living!....Most things have a strange way of working out if they are meant to be...Don't waste any life waiting....JK

 

[Limited-Time]

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My condolences on the loss of your "boys". In time she may hand them back to ya,……………ON A PLATTER………………… If not, fear not, they will grow back.........in time. Good thing you’re young.

 

[Boomyal]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Originally posted by Limited-Time:<br /> My condolences on the loss of your "boys". In time she may hand them back to ya,……………ON A PLATTER…………………

 

[Haut Medoc]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

LT, LOL ....JK

 

[KilroyJC]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

I think I finally have it KINDA figured out.

When you think you got it figured out, that's when things really come back & bite ya in a painful spot!

 

[11 footer]

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Good news <br /><br />Its been a long few weeks for me, but I can now say that, as of yesterday I'm finally over it.<br /><br />I still haven't talked to Perette at all, but I've just been feeling crappy about it all. <br />Well, yesterday I spend a few hours with Perettes best friends older sister. I was just taking her shopping, she has a boyfriend who I'm kinda friends with, so it wasn't like I was pork'in her or anything. Shes known Perette forever, and never really liked her, just knows her because she is best friends with her sister.<br /><br />Well, this girl pretty much told me the whole story about Perette. Turns out, the prolbem really wasn't me. Perette has a weard thing with guys, where she actually seems to enjoy fighting with them. I'm the first guy she ever went out with that didn't treat her like crap, and bleave it or not, that was the prolbem! She like didn't know what to do and being in a serious relationship with someone who was 100% comuited scaired her. I guess the 21y/o and her would fight constantley, break up, get back together, and break up again. She likes that kinda drama crap. It would happen all the time. <br /><br />Hearing all this, plus I guess just having some time go by, and I'm feeling a lot better about it all. I do plan on calling her sometime after christmas and just seeing whats up and if time changed anything, but if it doesn't work out, whatever. Maybe shes just too inmature for me.<br /><br />And,<br />Thats all I've got to say about that!

 

[Boomyal]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Originally posted by Ryan T.:<br /> Turns out, the prolbem really wasn't me.

I guess you don't listen very well Ryan. That very same point has been made numerous times here. But then I guess it is not unusual that a young un has to learn for himself, in his own way. It's just that, well, if they listened up a little tighter, they'd save themselves an awful lot of grief.

 

[Pony]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Oh crap....the "its not you its me" routine.............George Castanza and I invented that

 

[theriver]

Re: Girl prolbems, already

Run Forrest Run

 

[waterone1@aol.com]

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Ryan, one more thing you need to do. Write a note to your friend, who dates the girls friend. Tell them " I don't want to know what SHE is doing. No matter how much I ask or beg, don't tell me what SHE is doing or if you saw HER with someone else. Tell them to just pull out this letter the next time you ask about HER. If, by the way your friends tell you what SHE is doing, without being asked by you....TELL THEM TO KNOCK IT OFF. They are only stirring up stuff....and YOU DON'T NEED IT !(some "friends" get their amusement out of other people's misery).