I stopped after that last message and today I feel much more optimistic. I did what you suggested AllDodge and felt really solid. I also started the engine to see if the coupler was warped and it was not; problem is the front mount was still loose and the wife said the engine was jumping all over the place. I was watching the coupler spin true (thank goodness). I know starting the engine with a loose front motor mount cant be good though, hopefully I did not damage the rear mounts. However, it might be my optimism, but I adjusted up to where I was yesterday and now the bar DOES go in all the way. Now the bar goes in and the grease marks are even but the bar is still real tight, its not as tight as it was earlier but tight none the less. What should I do, keep raising a 1/8th at a time and see if it gets easier? Can the bearing be tight and that is what's causing it? I am leaning toward the coupler still being off since the bar goes in and doesn't get tight until it gets and inch into the coupler (according to the spline marks). Thanks again for all of you guys help.