Re: Spinning tires at the launch, take two...
That makes no sense. If you are in second gear it will pull more slowly than first due to the gear ratio, and pulling steady has nothing to do with either gear as that has to do with throttle control and traction. Torque converter not locking up is just fine, and is actually desirable to keep the wheels from spinning by not sending 100% of the engine HP/TQ down the driveline. It doesn't hurt anything for short periods of time and is designed to work that way.
I used the feature when we had a 2wd truck and in the snow. It helped! You might be right? but I feel it is the same as starting my manual transmission car on an uphill in 2nd gear, yes I can do it, but it really bogs down and isnt good on the clutch making me think it probably isnt great on the automatics either. I rarely need 4x4 to pull out of the water today and generally use either D or #3.
Back to the subject:
-Bottom like, how clear is this ramp?
-Does it have a drop-off? (trailer tires getting stuck)?
-Tongue weight too light and negatively affecting rear traction?
-Is this ramp just too steep?
-Are you just on sea-weeds?
Only people I ever see get 'stuck' on ramps here either have Front wheel drive, backed too far in, or have an undersized tow-vehicle.