Girl prolbems, already

[roscoe]

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I too wonder why Ryan bothers to post here.<br />He always has his mind made up before posting.<br />He always knows everything and has it all figured out.<br />And he always wants everyone to just agree with him and pat him on the back. And if he gets any contrary opinions, he gets mad and calls people names.<br /><br />From his posts above, he knows everything there is to know about this girl, and all women, and apparently knows how all girls react in all situations involving "their first time". Almost like he has been a teenage girl 40 or 50 times and is speaking from personal experience.<br /><br />He does do a good job of ignoring anything I post. If he would also learn to do this with his hormones and girls for a few years, he might save himself alot of bad experiences.

 

[cpj]

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Are you planning on getting married this month Ryan?If not, I would look around for a gal that doesnt have all the baggage. Oh, and if you think that you can compete with a 21 year old,never mind you wont listen anyway.

 

[Boomyal]

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We should retitle this post to SW vs Ryan T. <br /><br />I do however agree that SW's comments are over the top. At the same time Ryan, should learn to take the kernals out of all of the input here. After all, he is not the first hormonally charged youngster that has ever been confronted by these confusing issues!<br /><br />Ryan, get a life. Stay away from these 'hot' chicks who do not have a clue as to what is in their best interest and keep yanking your ....?

 

[Dunaruna]

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Suzuki.

 

[roscoe]

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Clinton

 

[Haut Medoc]

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Now that's funny...JK

 

[phatmanmike]

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Originally posted by Dunaruna:<br /> Suzuki.

exactly.<br /><br /><br />but who needs that when you have drama-rama.

 

[Limited-Time]

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Originally posted by roscoe:<br /> I too wonder why Ryan bothers to post here.<br />He always has his mind made up before posting.<br />He always knows everything and has it all figured out.<br />And he always wants everyone to just agree with him and pat him on the back. And if he gets any contrary opinions, he gets mad and calls people names.<br /><br />From his posts above, he knows everything there is to know about this girl, and all women, and apparently knows how all girls react in all situations involving "their first time". Almost like he has been a teenage girl 40 or 50 times and is speaking from personal experience.<br /><br />He does do a good job of ignoring anything I post. If he would also learn to do this with his hormones and girls for a few years, he might save himself alot of bad experiences.

Let's see rosco, seems to me you just described the average 16 year old male. Got the world by the a$$, knows every thing, can’t figure out how the "older generation" has gotten so far being so stupid. Fear not, by the time he reaches 21 he'll be trying to figure out how the "older generation" learned soooo much in five short years.

 

[SoulWinner]

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Ok, ok, ok.......I'll come clean. I'm just jerkin' the little fellers chain here. I mean, come on, who could honestly believe the crap I posted? However, this chicky has more red flags waving around her than a pack of box cutter toting arabs at an airport terminal. This girl has some baggage, and Ryan is a 16 year old with a boat, and a job! He CAN do better. Or he could feed her a couple of beers and tell her he loves her and take off three months later....LOL.

 

[oddjob]

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Damn good thing they give out free condoms at school....makes perfect sense considering the circumstances. <br /><br />Ah-oh,....Ryan, she may be pregnant.

 

[SoulWinner]

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Hey yeah, them prego-hormones make chicks act nuttyer than a pecan pie.

 

[salty87]

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"nuttyer than a pecan pie"<br /><br />couldn't have described this thread any better myself. wish i had read it sooner.

 

[POINTER94]

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Ryan,<br /><br />Getting advice on women is like trying to read the cliff notes on a million books. No two are the same. <br /><br />Two things: What is a 16yr/old girl doing going out with a 21yr/old idiot. He is old enough to go clubbing anywhere in the US, she might have her drivers licence, and may still have her barbie collection in her room. Duh!!!<br /><br />The other which is really the advise, and that is be more like Ryan. If Ryan is all about fishing and hunting and the like, go do it. Sincerity and self confidence will win most women over. If it doesn't there is something wrong with her. Nothing you can say will impress her, but living your life to the fullest will impress her by your actions. I would avoid your propensity to misdemeanors. Be happy, it will either bother the crap out of her because you are or she will be intrigued and come back around. Either way Ryan wins. Chasing this girl will result in you making a fool of yourself. I'll make book on that. Were men, thats what we do. <br /><br />FWIW you may have been played to make peace within her family. Once accomplished, you were dead weight. Don't sweat it, Tom Selleck lost on the dating game, I bet that woman is kicking herself to this day. I bet he isn't.

 

[SoulWinner]

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Dang Doug, did we date some of the same chicks back in the day???? In my younger days, I chased two chicks clear out of the state, and neither has been back in 22 years. One even missed her mothers funeral! <br /><br />Doug is right, life is about making the most out life. Start by not taking it (or me) too seriously. Life is like a new puppy. Think of you and your life separately. You are you and your life is like a new puppy. Treat your life like a new puppy that you want to built happy future with. You have to train it, feed it, clean it, respect it, discipline it, and love it if you want it to be good to you. Don't subject your new puppy to bad things, or mistreat it in any way. See where I'm going with this? Handing your new puppy this girl may be mistake that could leave a long lasting bad impression on the puppy. It could make your puppy a mean, cynical old bastid of an ole dawg one day.

 

[theriver]

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My 2 cents is that a girl who dresses (nails and hair and no doubt clothes) at that age is looking for action, not a steady boyfriend. Sorry to say.

 

[Link]

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[waterone1@aol.com]

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Ryan, I really don't think you are looking for advise, unless it is what you want to hear. I think you just want to tell your story and believe that someone is listening to you. I remember those days. It doesn't matter what any of us "old guys" say, you will feel the way you feel. I got my heart ripped out as recent as six years ago. Thats the funny thing about being older, six years ago seams like yesterday, but without any of the pain. Yes, I can remember the pain, I can almost feel it...but I'm in the best relationship of my life and even if I try, I just can't feel that pain that I felt many times before.<br />I know you won't listen to this, no man in love will, but I have to say it "don't be a doormat for this girl". If you really want her, turn your attention somewhere else....ruin some other girls life, just so you can run back to this one. That is the way of the world. Seriously, give her space, don't call her and get on with your life. Women want, what they think they can't have........read it again....women want what they THINK they can't have. Don't be a jerk, don't play games with her, don't be mean. Just find something else to think about and do with your time. Do not make her your one priority and do not cancel other plans, just to show her how much you care. Be yourself, do what you like to do, if she calls you...talk to her. LISTEN, do not pass judgement, do not offer advice....do not try to fix her life. Do NOT throw other women in her face,but do not lie to her if you are seeing someone else. Get on with your life, live it like she did not exist, but be receptive to her if she does want to spend time with you.<br />After a few months of this one of two things are going to happen, either she will be yours, or you will find someone that you feel stronger about.<br />Two things I can guarantee, if you stay fixated on her and call her....she will go away. If you think she is the only one for you, you will miss out on someone truely great. Last peice of advice, you are not in competition with the older guy....you are in competition with yourself and timing. If the time she spends with you feels light and easy...she will chose that. If the time with you feels like she has to choose someone and has to make a decision....she will run away.

 

[KilroyJC]

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myoutboards<br />Captain<br />Member # 34606<br /><br /> - posted November 08, 2005 21:37 leave that girl at the lemonade stand and go out in your 17 foot whaler with your 70hp suzuki and go fishing.<br /><br />problem solved!<br />

There's a lot of truth in that statement...<br /><br /><br />Hey guys - tell me if I'm wrong here: The First rule for males dealing with females is that no matter what you do you it will probably be the wrong thing .<br /><br />I'm not the one to ask for advice, but sympathy, well, that I can give ya.<br /><br />HANG IN THERE!

 

[heycods]

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If you figgure women out you let me know. thier are a few hundred million men out there who are still trying. Your time will come, mine finaly did 13 years ago last jan. life has ben much better when you find the right one. lwr

 

[11 footer]

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Well, things between her still aren't very great, but I've learned a lot from all this I think I finally have it KINDA figured out.<br /><br />Right around the time of my last update to you guys she was at the point where she was almost freaked out by how much I like her, and how nice I was. I talked to her a few times and it was just awkward. I could tell she really needed her space, so I gave it to her. Not talking to her for a while, I give her a call and she doesn't answer, it pissed me off. So the same day she didn't answer my call my buddy calls me and asks how its going with her, my exact words where "$%&^ that b!tch" I really never felt that way about her, but at the time I was just pissed and I figured I was just talking to my buddy. Well, the moron had me on speaker phone on his nextel, so he and his girlfriend heard me say it. His girlfriend is best friends with Perette, so it got right back to her. I let a week go by, never knowing she heard about me saying that or even remembering saying it. I give her a call and she answers, I'm just trying talk to her about how she's been and she's a total b!tch to me on the phone, really just blows me off. I was pissed when I got off the phone with her and really thought at that point I was done. Three says later I find out what her problem was, she heard what I said and was really upset about it. I felt like such a jerk, but their really wasn't anything I could do. I was told she didn't want to talk to me and prolbey wouldn't answer my calls, so I didn't try. I saw her at a school football game, she was with the same group of people as me, but she sat like three people away from me and we didn't talk at all. It was really bothering me all that night and the next day I sent her a text message to apologize for what I said she say I really didn't mean it. She replies, thanking me for apologizing, but asking what she did to make me mad enough to say it. I told her that she didn't so anything to deserve to be talked about like that. I told her I felt like such a jerk and was just frustrated. She sent back a short message saying "well, thanks for the apology".<br />This was all at the beginning of the week and I haven't talked to her since.<br /><br />I hear about what she does threw my friend and his girlfriend, so I know that she isn't seeing anyone else, or talking to mr.21y/o I've finally learned that I have to act like I dont care, and hope that she'll like that. I have no intentions of calling her for at least a month. I found out that some jerk she goes to school with started bothering her a lot once he found she was single, and she didn't want anything to do with him, but he kept bothering her. Him and I had a little "talk" yesterday, and lets just say that he won't be bothering her anymore. So thants what I'm doing, not talking to her for a while and hoping that a month or so from now we can get involved again.<br /><br />I know it sounds like I'm waiting around, but I'm not. I've been out with two different girls in the last week just for fun, but I have no intentions of being in a relationship with anyone but Perette right now. So we'll see how it all turns out.